While it is unwise to brag about yourself on college applications, it is totally appropriate–if not essential!–for other people to do it for you. There are three types of letters of recommendation:
- The Secondary School Report completed by your high school counselor
- Teacher Evaluation forms completed by one or more teachers, and
- Optional Recommendations written by others who “know and love you.”
Admissions officers pay a lot of attention to what the counselor, teachers and others say about you, so make sure you provide them everything they need to do the best job they can.

- Many college applications now offer the counselor and teachers the option of completing online forms. Find out what your counselor and teachers’ preferences are–online or hard copy–and proceed accordingly.
- Give your high school counselor and teachers all the materials they need, including
- Counseling office materials
- Activities resume
- Your college list organized by application due dates
- The proper forms with the top portion filled out by you
- Stamped, college addressed envelopes (if hard copy is used)
Always say yes to the confidentiality waiver on the Secondary School Report and Teacher Evaluation forms. Colleges are suspicious of students who do not waive their rights to see what the counselor and teachers say.
- Give other recommenders (coaches, an employer, the head of a non-profit where you volunteer, a special private music or other teacher) all the materials they need to write outstanding letters of recommendation.
- Activities resume
- Your college list organized by application due dates
- Stamped, college addressed envelopes
- The people you ask to write recommendations for you should be those who know you the best, who write well and will say positive, memorable things about you.
- Regardless of how famous, connected or prestigious they are, it is not a good idea to ask people who don’t know you well to write letters of recommendation on your behalf.


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If you want more information about any of the above, or
School Counselor
- Do’s and don’ts in working with the school counselor, including how to help your school counselor do a good job for you
- What to do if you have a new counselor at the beginning of your senior year
Teachers
- Tips on how to help teachers do a good job for you
- How/why to ask teachers who are planning a sabbatical, maternity leave or retiring to write letters for you
- The differences between what the school counselors write about you and what teachers write
Special Recommendations
- Why Ivy League applicants need special recommendations
- Why students with less than stellar grades and test scores need special recommendations
Cover Sheets
- A sample cover sheet to give your counselor
- A sample cover sheet to give teachers
- A sample cover sheet to give other recommenders
- Who NOT to ask to write a letter of recommendation for you
- How to keep track of all of the forms and letters and make sure the colleges receive them
- A sample college list for recommenders, including why you like each school
If you want to gain access to Guide 13, Recommendations, click here for an online, bare bones version.
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